1) Say hello to your vegetables. Invite them over for dinner.
Vegetables are the most critical and most lacking food in the American diet. Plant life carries abundant sources of vitamins and minerals and are chock full of powerful cancer-preventing, heart-protective, inflammation-squelching antioxidants. They offer an abundance of nutrition for few calories, and are loaded with fiber to satisfy appetite for long periods of time. Enjoy them liberally - steamed, raw, stir-fried or roasted. Hold the cheese sauce!

2) Drink your water!
Our cells bathe in a sea of water. More than 65% of the human body is comprised of this element! Most of us walk around in a state of dehydration - especially if we partake in the coffee culture that permeates the Northwest.
Dehydration manifests itself in numerous symptoms other than thirst. Food cravings, hunger, poor concentration, headaches, muscle spasms, bladder issues, poor skin quality, overheating and fatigue during exercise are some of the symptoms that can be attributed to dehydration.
Don’t like the taste of water? Try adding slices of lemon, orange, lime, or cucumber to your water. Mint sprigs can be particularly refreshing in the summer.
Please note - there is no substitute. Calorie-free “flavored water” is not water. Water is water. Drink liberally until urine is clear. Repeat.

3) Eat Breakfast!
Studies show breakfast eaters have lower blood pressure and cholesterol, better concentration and moods, and are more likely to be height-weight proportionate than their fasting counterparts. Not eating breakfast is akin to letting your car idle all night and then trying to drive it from Seattle to Portland without fueling up. If you have no appetite in the morning, try a piece of fruit or 1/2 a yogurt to start. You’ll soon discover fewer cravings, greater energy, smaller evening meals and a rumbling tummy in the morning — all signs of a healthier metabolism!

I had the great pleasure of spending my holiday learning how to meditate. Meditation has been on my list of to-do’s for a few years now, but I felt uncomfortable trying and thought I couldn’t “do it right”. My brain would never calm down, I felt awkward and silly, and wasn’t quite sure how sitting and listening to my inner chatter was going to give me clarity, insight and peace.

After several positive testimonials, I decided to give myself a crash course in meditation by attending a Vipassana retreat in Onalaska, WA. For 10 days I sat and meditated, mostly in silence, with periodic breaks for delicious, wholesome food and walking on the retreat grounds. My rationale was 1) I can’t procrastinate or escape if I’m at a retreat, 2) 90-100 hours should be enough time to get comfortable with it, and 3) the quiet time and introspection were in dire need at that moment.

So off I went!

I cannot really describe what occurred, or how it occurred, but I can tell you that one does not leave such a retreat the same person who arrived. 10 days of mediation takes great effort, its true, but the profound rewards of attentiveness, awareness, and clarity are given without conscious struggle or effort. Your objective is to sit and observe, and through this process you somehow release attachments and struggles to emotions, ideas, and expectations. It’s as though you distract yourself with the meditation process while someone else cleans house (or head, as the case may be). I left knowing I had changed, but not knowing just how I had changed.

In the few weeks since my return to civilization, I have observed the following; I am more calm and accepting of the world around me – traffic, people, weather (the cold bothers me less, Mom!); I have greater faith in the unfolding process of my life, and I hear things I did not hear before such as inflection in tone and that which is unsaid. I am less afraid to be straightforward with my opinions, thoughts, and feelings. I feel more comfortable with who I am, even if others are not.

I might be more daring. I might be less hog-tied by uncertainty. That is not to say I am fearless - but now I know in my gut that it’s a passing phase. It will come up, show its face, and fade away, just like all other emotions and experiences in human existence.

Vipassana, or insight meditation, trains the subconscious mind to accept the impermanence of all things. We can consciously observe and accept that everything changes and nothing is forever but for some reason we still become attached or repelled to ideas, thoughts and habit patterns that, according to Buddhist philosophy, only lead to pain and suffering. Something we want doesn’t pan out, something we did not expect throws us for a loop – these things simply occur; our reaction to them is what ignites unpleasant feelings in our body or mind. Vipassana meditation is reported to alleviate suffering through developing a deeper understanding of the temporary nature of all things through simple observation of the body.

Of course, 10 days does not a Buddha make. While I’m not walking around enlightened, I can report that if I do get irked at traffic or burned rice it doesn’t last as long. Interactions with others that would normally upset me (rude strangers, for instance) don’t phase me. I can more clearly see how my own thought patterns can lead me to unpleasantness, and I’m less likely to fall down the rabbit hole after them.

If you are interested in exploring Vipassana mediation, retreats are available all over the world. The centers are run by donation only so that everyone can have access to the benefits of a calm, equanimous mind. For more information, contact me or visit the National Vipassana Website at http://www.dhamma.org/

Holidays and the New Year can be a difficult time for many people. For some, behind forced cheer, bright lights, and bold resolutions of improvement and progress lie great fear and sadness. Remembering loved ones who have passed, regretting choices made or experiencing fear of the future can dampen our spirits. Nature is dormant, days are darker, our bodies have less energy, yet culture pushes us forward, refusing to utilize these winter months for reflection and restoration by emphasizing cheer, merriment, lights, parties, and determined goals of betterment and growth.

These things are not inherently negative – quite the contrary (I’m a big believer in cheer!) – but there is a time and place for everything. In nature, a cycle of growth and progress is followed by harvest and rest. Plants and animals effortlessly exhibit these cycles due to their immersion in the natural environment. Humanity, ever moving “forward”, has chosen to ignore this aspect of rest and reflection for various reasons.

We are largely motivated towards pleasure and away from pain. Stopping and taking stock of our lives or fully experiencing a loss can be frightening and painful. Rather than face this, many have a tendency to flee to the next merriment, push down discomfort and work through grief, or otherwise ignore, minimize, and thwart a sensation that is intended to grab our attention because something is amiss!

Within grief and pain lie the seeds of true advancement and evolution. When we stop and examine loss, we have the opportunity to learn and experience life in new and profound ways. Allowing the magnitude of unexpected change to affect us allows our preconceived creations about ourselves and the world around us to fall away, bring in space for creating something more fitting and beautiful for ourselves. When we ignore, deny, or minimize this opportunity, we risk stunting growth and continue to live and engage in patterns which no longer suit us and will ultimately only bring us back to more pain.

It is said that nothing is brought to us which we cannot handle. In my own experience, I have found this to be true. Strength lies not in a bold face and carefree attitude, but in facing whatever comes our way, gracefully or not, and emerging on the other end with greater insight. Discomfort can be a powerful teacher to a willing student.

If your or someone you know is going through difficulties, it is important not to experience these feelings in solitude. While reflection and growth is largely a one-person journey, the support of one’s “tribe” – be it healthcare providers, family, or friends – allow priceless support and an anchoring to hope and clarity in the event of getting carried away in intense emotion or old habit patterns. I frequently tell my clients that human beings are pack animals; we need support! We have lived in community for all our existence and do not thrive in solitude. Reach out and welcome support in your life – for your grief, to support your New Year’s Resolutions, and to restore your own stores these dark winter months.